Normal Manners Should Still be Considered

Does it seem that the word,"manners" has taken a very serious backseat to the hedonistic tendencies of our society today?  What has happened to the simple pleases and thank you, the opening of a door for someone, or offering your seat to someone who is obviously having a few problems with their balance? 

Bear with me as I digress here as there is definitely a BIG point here.  Common courtesy has apparently taken a  dive for many in our hurry up, self-centered generation.  And, even in writing these words, I find myself feeling intensely old.  I was raised to look at people when conversing, look behind me when walking through a door, and sending a note after receiving a gift.

Skip ahead to being at a dog show where you are given a behind the scenes pass.  So, you have carte blanche to go where you'd like and supposedly do what you wish.  WRONG!  Regardless of the environment in which you are operating, your manners and etiquette speak volumes for what you are about.

It is always best to think before acting, especially when you are around animals that may not always behave in the same way that they might outside of a show situation.  You know, nerves can have that effect on the two and four legged ones!  Please, for everyone's safety and happiness, just slow down and consider:

• Always ask ahead of reaching out to pet a dog that you don't know.
  Approach the dog with gentle movements that allow him to see your intentions.
  Consider leaving strollers and wheeled carriages outside of an area that contains the show dogs.
  Think about the tone of your voice when speaking to the dog and ask if there are certain commands to which the dog will respond.
  Ask the handler if the dog is allowed to have a treat or snack before you give it to the dog.

  Just as people prepare for a show, so too do the dogs and their handlers.  While some dogs are completely relaxed, others experience stage fright and may be less inclined to receive strangers.

Better to be safe than to need stitches from a dog bite. 

Enjoy the show.